What really turns a woman on in bed? Does she fantasize about the same things you do, or do completely different things turn her on? And why do female sex fantasies STILL have such a social stigma in our society? In this article we are going to take a quick and insightful look at sexual fantasies for women, and get a deeper understanding of what REALLY turns your woman on between the sheets. Curious to know more? Great, continue reading as we take a closer look below!
Okay, but what really turns a woman on in bed? Does she fantasize about the same things as I do?
Honestly? One of the most remarkable discoveries in sexual sociology has been the DIFFERENCES between both male and female fantasies. Men tend to visualize purely physical encounters, with very little emotional connection or “vibe”. Women, on the other hand, tend to picture emotional connections FIRST, and then they migrate these fantasies to elaborate sexual scenarios that are rooted in both romance…AND mind blowing sex!
Does this mean that women DON’T fantasize about purely physical sexual scenarios?
No, it doesn’t at all. It turns out that women have FAR more elaborate, and even erotic fantasies compared to our male counterparts. Sexual fantasies for women tend to LAST longer too, with all sorts of scenarios playing out before she tends to “finish” the fantasy.
Do women tend to share their fantasies with their man or partner?
Interestingly, no we don’t! The truth is, women are FAR more likely to talk about sexual fantasies with our female friends, rather than dive into deep detail with our man. As a matter of fact, women are FAR more revealing when it comes to what they like, what their partner likes, and what REALLY turns them on when talking with other women, or even casual friends and acquaintances than she will to her long time male lover. (shocking but true)
Okay, so what really turns her on in bed, anyway?
Lots of hot conversation. Ambiance is an aphrodisiac. A wonderfully well endowed partner with a great body is a HUGE asset. (no pun intended) A man who knows what he’s doing when it comes to foreplay is a very common fantasy as well! As a matter of fact, just about all of the stuff she loves to do in real life, is EQUALLY as compelling in fantasy world as well! (and hopefully you not only know what those things are, but you already do them well to boot!).